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Come on now ladies you must all agree that men are all the same. They are self centred, egotistical, selfish, arrogant and big babies. If you have found one that isn’t like this you should do your damnedest to hold onto him because when they made him they must have broken the mould.
You know what its like, when you meet someone new you always think they are different. This one is different he is not all those things we don't like but have grown to accept in men. We are partly to blame for them being like that, as mothers we bring our sons up to be as they are. We spoil them. We do everything for them, cooking, cleaning, washing etc. Then when we are looking for a partner, our soul mate, we are shocked when every guy we meet has the same traits as the one before.
I know we are usually on our best behaviour when we meet someone for the first time, especially if we really like them and want there to be more than just friendship, but why is it that when you get to know the guy well, that lovely young man, suddenly turns into a sulky, selfish big kid. They can’t do anything for themselves, if they are looking for something they open the drawer or cupboard door and if what they are looking for doesn’t jump out at them they say its not there. You then have to stop what you are doing, usually their washing or something such like, and go find it for them. It would never occur to them to pick something up and look under it.
Come on guys we don’t want the Kevins (Harry Enfield’s character) of this world, we want a normal loving, caring man who thinks as much, if not more, about us as he does himself, who wants to share things with you good or bad and who wont sulk at the drop of a hat if he doesn’t get his own way. I’m not sure that there are any guys like that out there, but if there are please let me know, lol.
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lads...don't be a doormat.
Written by pcplod on 2006-01-23 01:37:54
Good point Cjay...but at the same time, even if a man goes out of his way to be the ideal man and do things that his "lady" wants him to do he will sometimes get treated like a doormat for being too soft and being too lovey-dovey and nice. Both partners need to be strong and stand up for what they want. In my experience, women can be just as mard-arsed as us Kevin's when they can't get their own way!!...come on lads what do any of you think?...let us know, stand up for the gentry out there!.
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Written by Guest on 2006-03-09 22:55:17
I think Cjay has the "right" to bitch about lazy and selfish men, in terms of many men being just that. But in fact, many women are not better. They are just as bad, in different ways.
What both sexes need to do is focus on what unites, not what separates. Plus, take advantage of the differences. Men and women have equal value, but they are not equal as "species". Both sexes need to learn to work with what they get from their partner.
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